Female Orgasm.
Hello, been a while. I missed you too.
I've noticed that it is difficult for some girls to talk about their sexual wants, challenges and desires and fantasy(I know it is not all girls, agbero people no follow for this matter).
The idea of explaining to their partner what brings them the most pleasure is a no - no. The concept of exploring these awesome female diamonds and making it quake with tremors in dripping wetness and brain melting orgasm is a distant story to most beautiful girls.
Ok. I am no sex expert or relationship Budda,but then I think i know a thing or two more than necessary about things how to make a girl squirt, G-Spot pressure, cunnilingus and i love to see or hear that the female counterpart achieves toe curling orgasm.
Please do not ask me how I got to know. God is my muscle. Oh yes! They are created for that. We males are made to sputter for a few minutes and jerk off so easily. It's a shame, but it is OK. These other gender are made to enjoy sex better, but then it is sometimes a far cry for so many of them.
Why have sex when you wouldn't enjoy it.
Ok. There are some persons who are just having sex just because they have to, and then if they don't, their partner would not be happy with them. And yes! I am talking about the female gender, the owner of the diamond.
OK guys! Bear with me, I'll be terming the vagina 'The Diamond' in this piece.
Alright!
So why have sex? When there's no creamy throbs, no squirting, no feelings of that tingling sensation that moves through the body straight to the vein every second the Diamond gets a hit or a smooch. no orgasm. Just sex.. Ah..
Where the problem is..
See where the problem lies. They rarely talk about it. The average African woman has been conditioned to see sex as 'just sex' . Not to want it or speak about it without getting judged.
Wrong!
How would you know if you can't talk about it? How can he know if you can't tell him what drives you m gaga?
I wouldn't put all the blame on them though, some guys do not even want to know..
This is what i think
Note: So because i am writing about the female sexual freedom, doesn't make me a feminist. Alright, let's ride along.
So i think sex is glorious, WTF! Don't tell me shit and don't ask me how. But then, every woman should feel what it is like to walk on cloud 9 ( Is 9 even the correct number?). Every woman should have that sensation that moves from the diamond area, to her head, then her legs and would make her feet weak.
Here is what you shouldn't think
So, because i am using these hard lofty words, you think it must be hard core sex that is necessary to bring a woman to orgasm? No! No!
I am not writing to teach you about how to have sex, but here's a few tips.
Firstly, it's not about you. Don't worry, it doesn't take anything for you to have an orgasm. Go slow, it takes time for her to build momentum, kiss. Please do not rush.
Secondly, you do not have only your manhood. Why make me talk too much.. There are other parts of your body that the creator has blessed every guy with.
Thirdly, oh! There's no third point. Please just have sense.
Here is the conclusion of the whole matter
A lot of things are necessary for the female orgasm and there are some cases of Female Genital Mutilation that have affected the girl child's ability to have an orgasm ( i have a post somewhere about it). And I can't be able to talk about all of them.
But then, it is important that the female gender do not see the talk of orgasm or good sex as something created for only men or something to abhor. You deserved better. Speak up. Go for more!
#femaleorgasmmatters
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Okay!
I wish the affected people would see this.
I gained something from this✔